The important
role that sex plays in a relationship is by now probably clear to everyone. The
days of hiding your pleasure are long gone, and people are talking about this
activity more and more openly in the modern world. That’s a good thing. If
nothing else, it has further emphasized the importance of sex, as explained here,
and it has reduced the stigma that has been revolving around it for quite some
time.
Now, while you
get that sex is a huge part of any relationship and that it helps people form
closer and stronger bonds, you are probably still wondering about a few things
related to it. First off, are there any actual health benefits to it? And,
secondly, is there a reason why you should add some toys to the mix and use
them either solo or with your partner?
You’ve likely
heard a few things about the health benefits that come with engaging in this
activity, but chances are you’re not quite sure what those are. Saying that it
is generally healthy is not enough to satisfy your curiosity, so you want to
learn some more. As for the toys, you’re wondering what the benefits of those
are and whether they are, thus, worth taking into account.
Both quite
important questions. And, we’ll answer both for you below, one at a time. After
you’re done reading, you will not only have a clear idea as to how good sex is
for your health, but also how great bedroom toys can be for you, both when
you’re single and when you’re in a committed relationship.
Here are some
benefits you can read about: https://edition.cnn.com/2018/03/01/health/health-benefits-of-sex-parallels/index.html
Health Benefits of Sex
Let’s get a bit
medical here. Sure, sex is for you mostly related to pleasure, as for most
people. But, it doesn’t hurt to know what it brings to the table in terms of
your health. If nothing else, you’ll enjoy it even more by understanding those
benefits.
High blood
pressure, which is a problem a lot of people deal with today, appears to be one
of the things that sex could resolve, or at least mitigate, for you. A link
between sexual pleasure and blood pressure has been confirmed in some studies,
with women being more affected by it than men. In other words, studies show a
correlation between normal blood pressure and satisfaction with their sex lives
in women.
Some research also showed a link between sexual pleasure and the immune system. In short, regular sex is said to have the ability to boost our immune systems. The increased effectiveness of the immune system is, of course, important for our overall well-being.
Let’s talk men
specifically now. A study that was done in 2004, and then was extended and
repeated in 2016, shows something rather interesting and useful. Basically, men
who ejaculate more frequently, around 20 times a month, are supposed to have
less risk of developing prostate cancer.
Apart from all
of this, here are a few benefits that are probably perfectly obvious to
everyone, but that still deserve our attention. Sex reduces stress levels and
it improves people’s sleep. The hormones that are released during and after
lead to relaxation, which also automatically leads to getting a better night of
sleep.
Why You Should Use Toys
Now for the fun
part, huh? Well, okay, we can’t deny the fact that knowing the health benefits
is also fun. Yet, there is something about those interactive sex toys that is highly
intriguing and that is certainly rather amusing. What you are wondering, though,
is whether there are any reasons to use those, other than satisfying your own
curiosity. Let’s answer that for you.
First off, sex
toys can help you get to know your body much better. By using them, you can
easily find out what your likes and dislikes are, which is bound to increase
your pleasure. Understanding your own sexual desires and figuring out what gets
your juices flowing will ultimately lead to better orgasms and an overall
better sex life.
How does this
translate to your relationship, though? Well, imagine knowing everything you
like and dislike, and communicating that to your partner. Your sex is bound to
become much better that way. Communicating your desires openly definitely leads
to greater satisfaction. And, of course, you can use the toys together and
experiment, aiming at further improving your bedroom activities.
If there was one
crucial thing that we could single out as the most important thing that leads
to sexual satisfaction, then it would be this. Self-esteem. Low self-esteem has
never helped anyone in the bedroom (read
more), and you can significantly improving by using those toys and getting
to know your body. When you get to know your body, you’ll also learn to love
and cherish it, which will automatically result in more confidence in the
bedroom and much more pleasure, both for you and your partner.
The willingness
to share your fantasies and incorporate toys in the bedroom with your partner
will definitely bring you closer together and actually make your relationship
stronger. So, these toys appear to have a positive impact not only on your sex
life, but on your relationship in general. Talk to your partner if you were
thinking about trying them out, then choose the toys you both will enjoy and
start playing.